A transaction is an exchange of goods or services, and something that is typically a win win for both parties involved. For example, we buy groceries and our family gets the food we need to survive, and the store gets our money. A home buyer buys a house and the seller makes money (or gets rid of the house). In our jobs, we trade our time and skills in exchange for money! Just about everything we do in life is a transaction in some way or another, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. So why would transactions in marriage or sexual intimacy be any different?
Amy loves back rubs (and I know that), and I enjoy being intimate with her (and she knows that) so often times we climb into bed and I give her an amazing back rub and we make love. It is a win - win for us both! We are both satisfied and happy and we do this because we love each other, we our marriage is strengthened.
So many couples look at transactional things as a horrible thing. We get comments like "my husband is just doing this for me because he wants to have sex" or "I am just giving him sex so that he will do ________"
In this episode we discuss transactional sex and chore play, and let you decide if it is something that can work for your marriage.
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