The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
Episodes
358 episodes
355. How To Manage Stress And Stay Connected As A Couple
Stress is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to drive a wedge between you and your spouse. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into how stress impacts both emotional and physical intimacy, sharing real responses from...
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354. Connected Conversations vs Disconnected Conversations And Why It Matters For Your Marriage
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving into the difference between connected and disconnected conversations in marriage—and why it matters for EVERY aspect of your marriage whether it be emotional ...
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353. What Is The Difference Between Sex And Sexual Intimacy?
When people hear the word "intimacy," they often think of sex — but there's a big difference between the two. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we break down what sets sexual intimacy apart from just sex and why it matt...
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352. All The Amazing Health And Marriage Benefits From Having Frequent Satisfying Sexual Intimacy
Did you know that regular sexual intimacy isn’t just good for your relationship — it’s great for your health too? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into the surprising science-backed benefits of sex....
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351. The 5 S's A Wife Needs: Can You Guess What They Are?
Last episode we talked about the 5 C's your husband needs from you. In this weeks episode we slip the script and talk about the S's your wife needs from you! If you are a husband that feels like your marriage is a bit disconnected, ...
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350. The Five C’s Your Husband Craves in Marriage - What He Want's You To Know
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into the five essential things every husband needs from his wife.Men and women may express love differently, but understanding these five C’s—Contentmen...
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349. Let's Talk About The Mental Load That Happens In Almost EVERY Marriage
Ever feel like you're carrying the weight of everything in your marriage — from managing the kids' schedules to remembering what’s running low in the pantry? The mental load can leave one spouse feeling overwhelmed and disconnected.
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348. Why Your Husband Wants And Needs To See You Naked.. The Many Benefits For The Both Of You!
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about something that can feel uncomfortable for many wives — letting your husband see you naked. But did you know that this simple act can have a powerful impact on your m...
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347. Turning Your Trials Into Opportunities In Marriage
Every marriage faces challenges, but those hard moments can become powerful opportunities to grow closer if you choose to approach them with the right mindset. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re sharing the ways you ...
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346. The Red Flags That Could Be Happening In The "Conflict Situations" In Your Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the red flags that can show up during conflict in marriage and how to prevent them before they escalate.We talk about how to keep conflict healthy, choosing the righ...
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345. Men Need To Control Their Sexual Energy While Women Need To Awaken It - How To Find A Good Balance
In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving deep into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely talk about openly—the difference between awakening and harnessing sexual desire.For most men, se...
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344. How Social Media Is Intentionally Trying To Target And Destroy Your Marriage... So What Are You Going To Do About It?
Did you know that social media algorithms might be intentionally targeting and sabotaging your marriage? It’s true—while men are being bombarded with sexualized content, women are getting hit with videos about appearance, weight loss, and anyth...
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343. Knowing The Different Sex Languages: Because Saying "Are You in the Mood?" Doesn't Work
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the fascinating topic of sex languages and explore how understanding them can transform your relationship. Just as love languages help couples connect emotion...
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342. Why We Often See Or Hear ONLY What We "Want" To See Or Hear— How Confirmation Bias Affects Marriage
In our videos, podcasts, and other things that we do, we sometimes get feedback from people that make comments that leave us wondering "how in the world did they come to that impression?" or "what podcast are they listening to?"
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341. The Emotional Costs Of Being In A Sexless Marriage
If you’ve been a longtime listener of our podcast, you know that we always emphasize the deep connection between emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy. The two are inseparable—when one is lacking, the other suffers. And when sexual inti...
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340. BRAND NEW app released, more features, stronger emotional and sexual intimacy!
We have been working on this project for nearly a year, pouring our hearts and souls into creating something truly special for married couples—and it’s finally here! 🎉 Our brand-new app, UandI, is officially available for dow...
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339. The Marriage Audit: What Would Your Spouse Say If They Were 100% Honest?
Regardless of whether your marriage is thriving, or just surviving, a Marriage Audit can greatly improve your relationship. It isn’t just a casual check-in—it’s a deep dive into the strengths, struggles, and blind spots in your relationship.&nb...
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338. Let's Talk About Sex Part 2 - 20 Things Husbands Wish Their Wive's Knew
In this episode, we continue our conversation about intimacy in marriage—this time from the husband’s perspective. In the previous episode, Amy shared the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew, and now it’s Nate’s turn to reveal the t...
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337. Let's Talk About Sex! 20 Things Wive's Wish Their Husbands Knew
In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Nate Whitson as he and Amy announce the release of their brand-new book:👉 Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Chri...
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336. Do Husbands Need Romance Too? 3 Freebies You Need!
In this episode, we dive into a question that isn’t talked about enough—do husbands need romance in their marriage too? We ran a poll asking men if romance is important to them, and the responses might surprise you! Spoiler alert: romanc...
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335. What Does Respect In Marriage Look Like? And The Ways To Show It!
We hear from so many spouses who tell us they don’t feel like their spouse respects them. Of course, what respect looks like can look very different for every couple, depending on their unique dynamics, values, and needs. However, one thing rem...
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334. We Become What We Consume - 10 Hidden Poisons That May Be Hurting Your Marriage Without You Even Knowing!
There are so many hidden poisons out there that have profound negative impacts on our relationships, and for many of us, we don't even recognize that we are being poisoned. For example, how are the movies or TV shows we watch influencing us? Do...
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333. Happy Couples Do These Things... Unhappy Couples Don't - It's Just That Simple
Have you ever wondered what makes some couples seem effortlessly happy while others struggle with constant dissatisfaction? The truth is, it often comes down to a few key habits and attitudes that happy couples practice consistently. <...
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332. The 11 things you DON'T NEED before being intimate. Is the bar being set too high?
We hear from spouses all the time that the bar is set too high and that their spouse requires too much from them before being willing to be intimate.If you want to be happy in your marriage, you should naturally be doing things like prov...
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331. Your Attitude Shapes Your Reality - Fix Your Attitude For A Better Sex Life And Marriage
If you find yourself constantly unhappy in your marriage or dissatisfied with your sex life, it might be time to take a hard look at your attitude. While external factors like busy schedules, stress, and unmet expectations can contribute...
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