The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
Episodes
516 episodes
513. If You Struggle With These Things, Your Marriage Needs This - With Austin
What if you could take one trip together and come home feeling closer, more connected, more passionate, and more in love than you have in years?When couples write to us asking for help, almost every message comes back to the same two thi...
512. Why The Devil Does Everything He Can To Get You In The Bedroom Before You're Married, And Then Keep You Out Of The Bedroom Once You're Married
Have you ever stopped to think about how strange this is that before marriage, most couples can't keep their hands off each other. The attraction is intense. The passion is exciting. The desire to be physically intimate can feel almost impossib...
511. I've Told You What I Need... So Why Does Nothing Change? Part 2 - With Austin
We’re back with Part 2, and we’re going even deeper!What happens when you’ve clearly told your spouse what you need, they KNOW you’re hurting, and yet... nothing seems to change?In this episode, Nick and Amy continue their ...
510. How Much Of Libido Is Mental? Better Sex Starts Here...
She’s thinking about the kids, schedules, work, groceries, appointments, laundry, what needs to happen tomorrow, the conversation she forgot to have, the thing she needs to order, and the 37 other tabs still open in her brain.Then her hu...
509. I've Told You What I Need... So Why Does Nothing Change? Therapist Interview Part 1
Have you ever looked at your spouse and thought, “How many times do I have to say this before something actually changes?”You’ve explained what you need. You’ve tried being nice about it. You’ve brought it up during a calm convers...
508. All Of The Negative Things That Can Happen From "Not Talking About It" In Marriage
We’ve talked a lot on the podcast and in our newsletters about what to do when your spouse doesn’t want to talk. But what we haven’t really done is explore all the ways “not talking about it” can negatively impact a marriage—and...
507. Part 2 - A Listeners Email - When A Good Husband Is Fulfilling ALL Of His Wives Needs, But Still Gets No Effort From Her
In this part 2 episode we continue our discussions about a listeners email with therapist Austin about what happens when one spouse is giving everything they have to the marriage but still feels unwanted, unimportant, and completely alone? If y...
506. 8 Reasons To Initiate Even If You Are NOT In The Mood: does the lower drive spouse have responsibility for creating passion?
Who usually initiates sexual intimacy in your marriage? If the answer is almost always the same spouse, this episode could be a game changer for your relationship.Initiating sex is about so much more than sex. It communicates desire, att...
505. A Listeners Email - When A Good Husband Is Fulfilling ALL Of His Wives Needs, But Still Gets No Effort From Her
What happens when one spouse is giving everything they have to the marriage but still feels unwanted, unimportant, and completely alone?In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with marriage therap...
504. Female Pleasure and Orgasm: 15 Things Every Couple Should Know?
Why do some wives struggle to enjoy sex or experience orgasm? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy share 15 important facts about female orgasm and explore the physical, emotional, hormonal, and relational factors that...
503. Part 2 To Episode 501 - How Men Can Harness And Manage Their Strong Sex Drive And How Women Can Awaken Theirs - With Austin
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy continue their discussion from episode 501 with Austin, and discuss one of the most common dynamics in marriage: different levels and patterns of sexual desire.For many husba...
502. He Wants Sex To Feel Connected. She Wants Connection To Want Sex. Why we view it so differently...
Why do two people who deeply love each other sometimes struggle so much in the bedroom?This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the biggest sources of frustration in marriage: men and women ofte...
501. Why Do So Many Issues In Marriage Correlate With Sex, Or The Lack Thereof? Part ONE - With Austin
Why does sexual intimacy seem to be connected to so many other areas of marriage?When couples are struggling with communication, resentment, emotional disconnection, trust, affection, stress, or feeling unappreciated, their sex life ofte...
500. Why Feeling Pressured For Sex Is A Desire Killer For Wives (And How To Fix It)
Why Feeling Pressured for Sex Is a Turn-Off for WivesWhat if the very thing you're doing to get more sex is actually the thing making your spouse want less sex?This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy tackle a topi...
499. Why Does the Pursuit Stop After Marriage? with Therapist Austin
Why do we put so much effort into winning our spouse’s heart while dating, only to slowly stop doing those same things once we’re married?In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with marriage therapist Aus...
498. Does More Respect Equal Better Sex In Marriage?
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the critical connection between mutual respect and sexual intimacy in marriage. While it is common for husbands to seek greater physical connection and wives to crave emot...
497. Want to Feel Closer, More Connected & More Desired? Start Here - With Therapist Austin
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick & Amy sit down with therapist Austin to unpack Stephen Covey’s classic book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People—but with a marriage twist!We take all ...
496. Why The Best Sexual Intimacy Might Start With This Weekly Marriage Meeting
What if 20 simple questions could help you reconnect, reduce resentment, improve communication, strengthen emotional intimacy, and even improve your sex life?In this fun, relaxed Tuesday episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast with N...
495. The Respect Your Marriage Is Missing (And You May Not Even Realize It) - With Therapist Austin
What does respect really look like in marriage? It’s so much more than simply being polite or avoiding arguments. Respect is shown in the way we speak to our spouse, the way we respond when we disagree, the way we treat them when we’re frustrat...
494. Is This OK? The Marriage Bed Questions Couples Are Asking... And Our Honest Answers
Sex can be one of the most powerful ways a husband and wife connect. When intimacy is approached in a healthy way, it can deepen emotional connection, build trust, increase affection, and strengthen your marriage in incredible ways.But t...
493. The #1 Marriage Mistake: If You Want Healthy, Happy Kids Stop Putting Them Before Your Spouse - Therapist Austin Interview
Should Your Spouse Really Come First?It's one of the most controversial messages we share, and every time we talk about it, the comments explode.Should your spouse come before your children? Before your career? Before your ...
492. Answering The Most Common Questions People Ask About Us - Some Of Them Might Surprise You
Get to know Nick & Amy like never before!In this fun, honest, and personal episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're pulling back the curtain and answering some of the questions we get asked most often about our o...
491. Are You Having Sex, But Still Feel Lonely, Disconnected And Unseen? - With Austin
Have you ever felt like something is missing in your marriage, but you just can't put your finger on it? Maybe your communication isn't terrible, your intimacy isn't nonexistent, and you still love each other... yet something feels off.W...
490. The Myths About Sex That Keep You From Having The Intimate Life You Desire
Most couples never realize they've been believing lies about sex for years.They compare their marriage to Hollywood, social media, or unrealistic expectations and then wonder why intimacy feels disappointing, frustrating, or disconnected...
489. EVERYTHING In Your Marriage Comes Down To Your Spouse Feeling Safe With You - But What Does That Even Look Like? - With Austin
In episode 433 with Austin Ellis, we talked about how a man can be a better husband and father and discussed safety in marriage. If your wife doesn't feel safe in your marriage, nothing else really matters. She needs to feel safe sexually, safe...