The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
Episodes
349 episodes
346. The Red Flags That Could Be Happening In The "Conflict Situations" In Your Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the red flags that can show up during conflict in marriage and how to prevent them before they escalate.We talk about how to keep conflict healthy, choosing the righ...
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345. Men Need To Control Their Sexual Energy While Women Need To Awaken Their Sexual Energy - How To Find A Good Balance
In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving deep into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely talk about openly—the difference between awakening and harnessing sexual desire.For most men, se...
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344. How Social Media Is Intentionally Trying To Target And Destroy Your Marriage... So What Are You Going To Do About It?
Did you know that social media algorithms might be intentionally targeting and sabotaging your marriage? It’s true—while men are being bombarded with sexualized content, women are getting hit with videos about appearance, weight loss, and anyth...
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343. Knowing The Different Sex Languages: Because Saying "Are You in the Mood?" Doesn't Work
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the fascinating topic of sex languages and explore how understanding them can transform your relationship. Just as love languages help couples connect emotion...
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342. Why We Often See Or Hear ONLY What We "Want" To See Or Hear— How Confirmation Bias Affects Marriage
In our videos, podcasts, and other things that we do, we sometimes get feedback from people that make comments that leave us wondering "how in the world did they come to that impression?" or "what podcast are they listening to?"
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341. The Emotional Costs Of Being In A Sexless Marriage
If you’ve been a longtime listener of our podcast, you know that we always emphasize the deep connection between emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy. The two are inseparable—when one is lacking, the other suffers. And when sexual inti...
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34:49
340. BRAND NEW app released, more features, stronger emotional and sexual intimacy!
We have been working on this project for nearly a year, pouring our hearts and souls into creating something truly special for married couples—and it’s finally here! 🎉 Our brand-new app, UandI, is officially available for dow...
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339. The Marriage Audit: What Would Your Spouse Say If They Were 100% Honest?
Regardless of whether your marriage is thriving, or just surviving, a Marriage Audit can greatly improve your relationship. It isn’t just a casual check-in—it’s a deep dive into the strengths, struggles, and blind spots in your relationship.&nb...
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338. Let's Talk About Sex Part 2 - 20 Things Husbands Wish Their Wive's Knew
In this episode, we continue our conversation about intimacy in marriage—this time from the husband’s perspective. In the previous episode, Amy shared the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew, and now it’s Nate’s turn to reveal the t...
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337. Let's Talk About Sex! 20 Things Wive's Wish Their Husbands Knew
In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Nate Whitson as he and Amy announce the release of their brand-new book:👉 Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Chri...
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336. Do Husbands Need Romance Too? 3 Freebies You Need!
In this episode, we dive into a question that isn’t talked about enough—do husbands need romance in their marriage too? We ran a poll asking men if romance is important to them, and the responses might surprise you! Spoiler alert: romanc...
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335. What Does Respect In Marriage Look Like? And The Ways To Show It!
We hear from so many spouses who tell us they don’t feel like their spouse respects them. Of course, what respect looks like can look very different for every couple, depending on their unique dynamics, values, and needs. However, one thing rem...
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49:05
334. We Become What We Consume - 10 Hidden Poisons That May Be Hurting Your Marriage Without You Even Knowing!
There are so many hidden poisons out there that have profound negative impacts on our relationships, and for many of us, we don't even recognize that we are being poisoned. For example, how are the movies or TV shows we watch influencing us? Do...
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37:25
333. Happy Couples Do These Things... Unhappy Couples Don't - It's Just That Simple
Have you ever wondered what makes some couples seem effortlessly happy while others struggle with constant dissatisfaction? The truth is, it often comes down to a few key habits and attitudes that happy couples practice consistently. <...
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28:34
332. The 11 things you DON'T NEED before being intimate. Is the bar being set too high?
We hear from spouses all the time that the bar is set too high and that their spouse requires too much from them before being willing to be intimate.If you want to be happy in your marriage, you should naturally be doing things like prov...
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36:48
331. Your Attitude Shapes Your Reality - Fix Your Attitude For A Better Sex Life And Marriage
If you find yourself constantly unhappy in your marriage or dissatisfied with your sex life, it might be time to take a hard look at your attitude. While external factors like busy schedules, stress, and unmet expectations can contribute...
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330. The Emotional Intimacy vs. Physical Intimacy Standoff... Is It Happening In Your Marriage?
We did a podcast like this a few years ago, but we felt is was such an important topic that we needed to do it again.In a video on social media for the men titled “the reasons your wife doesn’t want to make love to you” we heard ...
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329. Are You Intentionally (Or Unintentionally) Allowing Your Kids To Wreck Your Sex Life And Marriage?
We often do things in our marriages that have profound impacts without even recognizing we are doing them. Sometimes we do them unintentionally, and other times intentionally. When it comes to our kids, it is not uncommon for spouses to priorit...
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37:06
328. The Goals You Should Absolutely Set Together For More Passion, Fun And Connection
As the 2024 year wraps up, we decided that we were going to set some new goals to help our marriage thrive in 2025 and we think these goals can really help your marriage as well. However, these goals don't have to just be new years goals, you c...
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20:43
327. The Valuable Lessons I Learned From My Divorced Parents - What Not To Do!
My parents got divorced when I was about 15 years old. As that happened over 30 years ago, I have been able to reflect and look back on the things I noticed that had caused the marriage to fail. I also learned valuable lessons of what "not" to ...
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34:24
326. The Top Things You NEED To Do To Be Amazing In The Bedroom - For BOTH Of You!
If you want to have amazing sexual intimacy and connection in the bedroom, there are certain things you need to do not only in the bedroom, but outside of the bedroom. Good emotional intimacy typically equals good sexual intimacy. In th...
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325. Do You Want To Know The Reason(s) Why There Is No Romance In Your Marriage? And The Simple Things To Turn It Around!
Many of us get stressed out and busy with life, and our intimacy takes a back seat to everything else going on in our lives. Soon, we realize there is no romance or passion in the relationship and wonder, "How did we get here?"F...
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324. The Ways To Make Your Husband Feel Like A Stud!
Ok, let's be honest, it really isn't that difficult to make your man feel like a stud :) But.. we still wanted to share our poll answers from the husbands and let you hear directly from them as to what they need from their wive's to feel loved ...
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323. The Simple And Profound Ways To Make Your Wife Feel Beautiful, Sexy and Loved
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into what it truly means to make your wife feel beautiful—not just in how she looks, but in how she feels valued, cherished, and seen. The things you do and say play a huge role...
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322. How To Rebuild Your Marriage For The Intimacy And Relationship You've Dreamed Of (our story)
Rebuilding your marriage... what does that mean? About half way through our marriage, our marriage was broken and at rock bottom. We decided that our marriage wasn't working and we weren't going to last that way as we weren't happy, nor was our...
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