The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
Episodes
456 episodes
453. When Duty Sex Replaces Desire, Addressing A Listeners Question- With Expert Austin LMFT
What happens when intimacy starts to feel like just another item on the to-do list?We recently heard from a listener who opened up about a struggle so many couples quietly face. After a difficult conversation with her husband about sex.....
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452. Emotional & Sexual Foreplay Ideas for your marriage: Why BOTH are so important!
In this engaging episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast with Nick and Amy, the conversation focuses on the importance of both emotional foreplay and sexual foreplay in building a strong, intimate marriage. Nick and Amy break down how intimacy...
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451. Emotional & Sexual Intimacy Go Hand In Hand Part 2 - With Expert Austin Ellis
In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy are again joined by therapist Austin Ellis to discuss part 2 of the previous podcast 449: Emotional and sexual intimacy go hand in hand. They discuss why so man...
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450. Rejection: 5 habits that create a marriage where intimacy is wanted, NOT avoided.
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the sensitive but important topic of rejection in marriage and how emotional connection directly impacts intimacy. They share practical, real-life insights on how couples ...
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449. Emotional & Sexual Intimacy Go Hand In Hand: Sex Is Actually More Emotional - With Expert Austin Ellis
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy are joined by Austin Ellis to talk about how emotional and sexual intimacy are deeply connected in marriage. They discuss how feeling emotionally safe, valued, and understood often ...
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448. 10 AMAZING Facts You Probably Didn't Know About Orgasms: No More "I Have A Headache" Excuses
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive deep into one of the most natural yet misunderstood aspects of human health and pleasure — orgasms. Beyond the obvious enjoyment factor, orgasms offer a ...
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447. How To Move Forward When You’re Stuck In Conflict — Lessons From A Listener’s Experience
We had a listener write in and share this experience. She and her husband have four kids and a great marriage. They’ve both decided they don’t want any more children. The challenge is that she feels a lot of anxiety around intimacy because she’...
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446: The 6 Types Of PASSION You Need In Your Marriage!
The grass is not greener in someone else’s marriage. It is green where you water it. We have learned that firsthand. There have been seasons where our marriage felt easy, connected, and full and other seasons where things felt off, not because ...
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445. You Don’t Have Multiple Priorities In Marriage, You Have One... And It Should Be Each Other
What if the key to transforming your marriage isn’t more time, but clearer priorities?In this episode, Nick and Amy are joined by therapist Austin to discuss one foundational truth: your marriage should be your priority. Not work....
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444. Are You Just "Too Tired" For Your Marriage?
Is it just us… or is everyone exhausted?In this honest and relatable episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy tackle a question so many couples are asking: Are we too tired for our marriage?Between ...
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443. Too Late to Set Boundaries in Your Marriage? Why Boundaries Show Love With Expert Austin
It’s easy to think love in marriage is only shown through romance, gifts, or intimacy. But one of the most powerful ways to show love to your spouse is through healthy boundaries. Boundaries aren’t about control, distance, or keeping your spous...
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442. Nobody Ever Teaches You How To Be Married - So Give Your Spouse & Marriage Some Grace
Nobody ever really teaches us how to be married. Most of us walk into marriage full of love and hope, but with very little understanding of what we’re actually stepping into. We come from different families, different upbringings, and different...
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441. The Unexpected Side Of Marriage - The Things We Didn't Realize When We Got Married
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we take a fun and honest look at the unexpected side of marriage and the things no one really prepares you for. From those moments when Nick asks, “What’s wrong, sweetie?” and Amy answers...
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440. Stop Wingin’ It: This ONE weekly thing will be a game changer for your intimate life!
What if one simple weekly habit could transform your marriage? It certainly has for us!In this important episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into the power of the weekly marriage meeting, and why thriv...
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439. HELP! How Can I Forgive My Spouse After There Has Been Betrayal? Can We Truly Recover? - With Austin Ellis LMFT
We recently received a heartfelt message from a listener whose spouse had an affair. They shared a question many couples face after betrayal: Is it truly possible to forgive? While their spouse has expressed deep remorse and appears si...
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438. 10 Simple Things You Can Do To Have A More Passionate Intimate Life!
Everyone wants a better intimate life, right? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Amy and Nick dive into 10 simple things couples can do to improve intimacy in their marriage. These aren’t complicated or time-consuming...
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437. What Does It Mean (And Look Like) To Be A Better Wife - With Austin Ellis LMFT
In this episode, we have Austin Ellis back with us to dive into what it really means and what it looks like to be a better wife in marriage. You are going to absolutely love this conversation. We have already talked about what it means to be a ...
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436. Finding More Time For Your Marriage Amidst All Of Life's Demands... And Time Wasters
A while back, we shared a video on social media about the importance of making time for intimacy, dating, and connection in marriage. One man responded strongly, explaining that he, and many other husbands, simply did not have the “time” and fe...
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435. Repair Your Relationship, Reignite Your Intimacy - With Austin Ellis
Ever wonder if your marriage can be fixed and repaired… or if it's too late? You’re not alone. The great news is... it's never too late, and repairing your marriage is much easier than you think by implementing the right tools and strategies.&n...
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434. Staying Curious In And Out Of The Bedroom: The Secret To Lasting Intimacy In Marriage
Is curiosity the ultimate love language? On this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive deep into the power of staying curious in marriage, and why it might just be the key to emotional and sexual connection that l...
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433. The Secret To Becoming A Better Man, Husband And Father - With Austin Ellis LMFT
Nick is flying solo in this episode and dives deep with Austin Ellis, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, into what it truly means, and more importantly how to become a better man, husband, and father. This conversation is packed w...
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432. Don't Have The Intimate Life You Want? Do These Emotional Intimacy Things First
We talk about this all the time on the Ultimate Intimacy podcast — emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy go hand in hand. You can’t expect a strong sex life if you’re not emotionally connected first.For most people, especially ma...
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431. Love Doesn’t Assume... Love Asks, Love Listens And Love Responds
One of the fastest ways intimacy erodes in marriage is through assumption.We assume our spouse knows what we need.We assume they understand how we feel.We assume love means they should just “get it.”But mar...
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430. Setting Goals That Actually Stick To Help Your Marriage In 2026
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy break down how couples can stop “trying harder” and start creating real, lasting change in their marriage and good marriage goals couples should set for 2026 to help them f...
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429. Why The Lower Desire Spouse Needs To Initiate Once In A While
In many marriages, the higher-desire spouse ends up being the one who always initiates sex. Over time, that dynamic can leave the lower desire spouse feeling pressured, and the higher-desire spouse feeling unwanted or unseen.But here’s t...
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