The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

379. Ask Yourself These VITAL Questions Before Going To A Marriage Therapist

Are you thinking about going to a marriage therapist? Or maybe you're just listening to podcasts (like ours), reading books, or getting advice from influencers in hopes of improving your relationship? We wanted to share some vital questions you should ask yourself to make sure you're getting the kind of support that will actually help your marriage—not hurt it.

In today’s conversation, Nick and Amy share some of the most important lessons they’ve learned in their own journey, including why not all advice is good advice—even when it’s coming from a “professional.”

They discuss:

  • Why lived experience matters just as much (if not more) than credentials
  • How to discern if someone truly has your marriage’s best interests at heart
  • What red flags to watch for in therapists, counselors, and even social media “marriage experts”
  • How some therapists have unknowingly (or even knowingly) kept couples stuck or sick for years
  • The power of shared values and how that influences the direction of the advice you receive

This episode isn’t about bashing therapists—it’s about helping couples make informed, wise decisions when it comes to who they trust with "their" most important thing in their life, which is their relationship! 

Tune in for a conversation that will challenge you to think deeper and choose more intentionally when it comes to who you allow to speak into your marriage.

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